Dear Mike Cares, what advice would you give this girl of his dreams?

DEAR MIKE CARES I'm struggling with something that feels both silly and painful. I've developed intense feelings (maybe even "limerence") for a man I know, and no matter how hard I try, no one else seems to compare. I have tried dating apps, looking at younger guys, older guys, conventionally attractive guys. Nothing clicks. I keep thinking, why can't I just lower my standards? Or, why can't I find others attractive when I know logically this person isn't the only man on Earth? Am I broken? Am I too fixated on a type? Am I missing out on good people just because they don't give me butterflies? I know I can't (and maybe shouldn't) wait around for this one guy, but opening myself up to others feels impossible when they all feel so "meh" or even repulsive in comparison. How can I break out of this mental trap? I'm 30, so I feel I need to figure this all out. -- STUCK IN MY HEAD AND HEART

DEAR STUCK IN MY HEAD AND HEART: I love a good (“Limerance”) here is one of my favorites: I once knew a girl from Nantucket, she didn’t want to touch it, she only wanted to fuck it.  But seriously folks, you should not feel bad, confused, or “broken” because of your feelings. Many women get fixated on men to the point where they are mentally trapped, they are called stalkers, most are quietly seething in jail waiting to get sprung so they can visit their “only man on earth,” one last time before getting shot.  Get over yourself, get a hobby or dabble in vagina for all I care, just leave this handsome devil alone so he can be with some girl of his dreams not the dreams of some girl. Good Luck and Keep in Touch! Dear Mike Cares is also on X, Instagram and Facebook (whatever they are.) For more honest advice, email me your stupid questions at DearMikeCares@gmail.com