Dear Mike Cares, how would you answer this Dear Abby?

DEAR ABBY: I am a 59-year-old man. My 50-year-old fiancee lives in a nice home, but after a 15-year loving relationship, she decided last week to be with someone else. She had recently lost a great deal of weight, bought a new car and started to do things I felt were not age-appropriate -- although I never said anything adverse about them.

She's now staying in a weekly rental motel room with him. It leads me to believe they both left relationships and had nowhere else to go. She didn't give me a chance to fight for us (counseling, etc.) or even a heads-up that she was unhappy. One afternoon when I got home from work, I found a note from her saying she was sorry for not being able to tell me in person, but she was doing this for herself.

I have always been an honorable person in any relationship I have had. This is hard for me to understand and move on from. I have never been this hurt and emotionally drained. She will not communicate with me verbally, only through emails and texts. I feel desperate and lost. Please give me any encouragement that there is light somewhere at the end of the tunnel. -- EMOTIONALLY DRAINED IN MAINE

DEAR EMOTIONALLY DRAINED IN MAINE: 15 years as your fiancée? I’d say you did a hell of a job keeping that gal by your side, probably both getting fat, lazy and addicted to Netflix. But, the moment you saw her cleaning up her act, losing weight, looking for a new car, you should have realized something was afoot at the Circle K. She and her new body probably strutted toward her new car and caught her reflection in the Maine Feed and Grain window and suddenly got the call of the cock. Similar to the call of the wild, only this wolf in girl’s clothing was seeking the warm embrace of any man with a flat stomach and a hard cock. Which, clearly aint you brother. I know you are hurt emotionally, whatever the fuck that means, but, there is a new hot babe at the end of the tunnel, as long as that tunnel takes you the fuck out of Maine, because there is no beaver in that state other than those building dams. Good luck during your long winter, I’ll be thinking about you while sipping Pina Coladas and ogling the Latinas in South Beach.

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