Dear Mike Cares, what advice would you give this no oral-moral?

 DEAR MIKE CARES: Two years before he met me, my husband of four years did something I feel was morally repugnant: He solicited a prostitute. When he committed this act, he was going through a dark period in his life. He was divorcing a woman who had cheated and left him for another man, raising his young son and dealing with immense feelings of insecurity. He told me all of this while we were dating, and I thought I would eventually get over it. However, almost five years into our relationship, it still haunts me and makes me question his character. I hate that he was capable of doing something like this, regardless of what he was going through. I have tried therapy, and we've tried couples therapy -- nothing has helped me to move on. He says this is not the type of person he is now, but I just can't seem to separate the man who did that awful thing and the man I fell in love with. Are some actions so awful that they stain a person for the rest of their lives? Are we doomed? -- WRESTLING WITH IT IN CALIFORNIA

DEAR WRESTLING WITH IT IN CALIFORNIA: The only one doomed is this poor bastard of a husband who must have been off his Lithium to ever agree to marry a complete mental case like you. Who the fuck are you the Queen of England, or Mother Theresa? So the guy took some hooker out and banged and then threw her some cash for the gash, it happens all over the world every day. The only difference between you and a hooker is, when he takes you out pays for drinks and a meal after he bangs you he regrets it immediately and yearns for the day he could just pay some broad to put out, shut up and leave, which is really the only therapy a real man needs. Good Luck and Keep in Touch! Dear Mike Cares is also on X, Instagram and Facebook (whatever they are.) For more honest advice, email me your stupid questions at DearMikeCares@gmail.com