Dear Mike Cares, what advice would you give the wife of this momma's boy?

DEAR MIKE CARES: My husband speaks to his mom every morning. For the past couple of months, her health has been failing, and she spends most of her days in the hospital having an extremely tough time. Hearing his mom suffer daily is affecting my husband's mental health. It sets the tone for the whole day, and I spend my mornings trying to cheer him up. How do I tell him these daily conversations with his mom are starting to affect my mornings? Even the dog has begun showing signs of depression. Would I be selfish to suggest he needs to talk to her at a different time or maybe on fewer days? -- BYSTANDER IN CALIFORNIA

DEAR BYSTANDER IN CALIFORNIA: If your husband is not a doctor then calling her everyday is just a momma’s boy thing and there is nothing you can do. But for god’s sake if his self-centered depression is affecting you and the dog then there is only one non-selfish thing you can do, you need to end the pity by unplugging that old biddy. Good Luck and Keep in Touch! Dear Mike Cares is also on X, Instagram and Facebook (whatever they are.) Email me your stupid questions at DearMikeCares@gmail.com