Dear Mike Cares, what advice would you give this needling nitwit?

DEAR MIKE CARES:  I've been seeing "Pete" for eight months. He has been divorced for the last 15 years. He has two grown children and five grandchildren with his ex-wife, "Linda," who is still a significant person in Pete's life. They text throughout the day and enjoy doing things with Linda's husband. Pete is having major surgery soon. He has informed me that his daughter and Linda are going to be at the hospital, and there are only two guests per patient allowed. I have tried to explain to him that I'm uncomfortable with Linda being such an important person in his life and hurt that he doesn't include me in their outings. He turns it around and asks me what I want him to do about it. He says it's my problem, not his.

I care for Pete, but I am getting fed up. Do I throw in the towel or stick it out, hoping he'll see my side of the situation? -- INSIGNIFICANT IN THE MIDWEST

DEAR INSIGNIFICANT IN THE MIDWEST:  Gaa-Gaa, Goo-Goo.  Are you an infant or an adult?... you know Pete has an entire family he is close to.  I think eight months in you should still be at the “how was work today honey can I fix you a drink and give you a blowjob?” status rather than showing your true colors, that of a ball-busting twataholic.  I sure hope Pete dies in surgery rather than have to deal with your clingy, desperate, and jealous mind-vomit for even one more day!  Good Luck and Keep in Touch! Dear Mike Cares is also on X, Instagram and Facebook (whatever they are.) For more honest advice, email me your stupid questions at DearMikeCares@gmail.com